It is important to know the purpose of the gifting given by God. For example, “The one who speaks in tongues edify himself, but the one that prophesies edify the church. Each of us, filled by the Spirit, has an individual tongue that is given by God. Therefor when we pray in that “tongue” we pray unto God. When we prophesy, then God uses us to speak to His church. The gifts are also to be a witness for Christ. Through witnessing, God will be glorified. We must also remember that this gift was given to us by the grace of God and we must use them in faith. Therefor praise God with your gifting.