With what kind of eyes are you looking at people? Try and see Christ in them and then you will start to see all the good attributes they have. On that note you must start affirming that good attributes of the other person and see how they start to flourish. By affirming them you place them higher than yourself and that is what God calls us to do, to place others above ourselves. You will then start to realize that things in your life starts to fall in to place.
We live in a culture where there is a lot off negativity, but let us start to bring positivity by affirming each other.