We look at the outer, but God looks at the heart. We don’t need to prove anything,He already knows what we will do and with what motif. We can’t judge a book by its cover. Firstly get to know that person and see what they are like. Judgement is only going to pusch further apart.
When Samuel anointed David God says that He doesn’t look at tbe appearance, but at the heart.
Try annd look into proples heart by getting to know them better. Don’tt be inwardly focused, focuss solidly on the cross.
Don’t be determined by the things people say about you, believe what God says about you in His word