For which one will lead you eternity? Yes, God has called us to be obedient towards our parents. The instructions given by your parents ought to be inline with the Word of God, otherwise if the instructions is conflicting with what God says, then obey Him. We must also submit under authority*. I know it is hard to do that, but we must pay obedience to God by following His instructions. Therefor keep those who has authority over you and bless them with your prayer.
Paying obedience to God will make you holy and that holiness will created a space for others to have an encounter with God.
Keep up the good work that the Lord has started in you!